A Thousand Years…
… that’s how long each of us can live according to The Great Giovanni (Giovanni Livera) in his book, Live a Thousand Years – Have the Time of Your Life. A week ago, I was at an experience design conference run by Strategic Horizons (the Pine & Gilmore tag team who wrote The Experience Economy and Authenticity). Their keynote speaker was Giovanni, and he was wonderful. Not only was he an energetic, funny, engaging speaker, AND a magician,… but his message was uplifting and truly motivational. His goal is to get the audience to ‘consider the dash’; focusing on the dash between the date of your birth and your death, as carved in your tombstone. It’s clearly a choice he contends,… either choose to measure your life by clocks and calendars, or choose to measure it by moments and experiences.
Gio’s (he told us to call him that) book goes well beyond the simple adage of ‘slow down and smell the roses’, though a more contemplative approach to your daily activities is certainly a thread that is weaved throughout the book. I would say it’s less about subtracting things (so you can slow down),… and more about adding ‘purpose’ to the things that you do. It’s about being intentional; I love that word. Instead of letting outside circumstances and events set the pace/program of your life,… let what’s inside you, in terms of what you know is important (physical, emotional and spiritual well-being), force an intentional agenda for each day. And not just for the day, but for each hour and for each moment; creating an enduring memory of its redeeming value. Multiply all these by your years on this earth,… and you get closer to the ‘thousand years’ Giovanni says is possible for each of us to claim.
There are twelve sub-themes in the book, corresponding to the 12 digits on a clock,… Giovanni calls them appropriately the twelve chimes. They’re all good, but a couple of them really spoke to me. And the reason is the person they describe is ‘me’. The first is chime 6 – Time in the Moment. It’s about giving your full attention to ‘each moment’,… the people you are with and the task at hand. I know I’m terrible with names. I think the reason is that I don’t pause long enough to totally take in the moment,… hear the name, repeat it back, look for a connection to recall it later, even write it down if necessary. No wonder I’ll see the same person only a week later, and come up blank. It’s not right, it’s not respectful, and it’s ignoring the importance of relationships in life. From here forward, I plan to do my best to give others my full attention.
And then there is chime 12 – Time to Reset. This is one I think most everyone can benefit from, including me. The author says that too often people dwell on past failures and past successes,… instead of quickly closing that chapter and starting again. This tends to be easier to do with failures, as people will do anything to distance themselves from these as quickly as they can. But in fact the bigger shame is to hang on to a past success, well after the glow of that success has faded,… or to be satisfied that what was done is good enough. I’ve been guilty of completing a difficult task, and doing it well, and then looking forward to moving on to another task. But Giovanni says that the heights we achieve should merely set a new floor on what’s next. That makes a lot of sense,… use each success as a springboard to an even higher aspiration; to a new level of accomplishment. I may not live for a thousand years, but after reading this book I’m looking forward to the years before me. Just a ‘dash’...?
… people’s response to their aesthetic (look & feel) preference. It is through our senses that we come to know the world, literally from the day we are born. They inform us as to who we are. As we grow older, we begin to take control of who we are,… defining our personality through the look & feel of ourselves and our surroundings. When I was a small child I loved the colors red and orange. I don’t know why, I just did. Maybe it was because they had a way of grabbing people’s attention (once a ham, always a ham). As I grew older, orange lost its luster for me; red on the other hand, remained a favorite. And a new color emerged – black. Suddenly everything black was cool, and it went well with my gray beard. The point is, it’s what I liked,… and what I like may be at total odds with what you like. There are no rights or wrongs when it comes to ‘like’; you may not even be able to describe why you like something, you just do. It’s your signature, your style, and uniquely you.
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